Sex dating in norway

Dating and mating with Norwegian women can be tricky. If you ask the women in Norway, they say they want a real man…

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What happens next seems to be out of anyone’s control. seems to be a question no one, absolutely no one can answer.

Then follows days, sometimes weeks of exchanging sms with more smileys than anyone can stand.

Apparently Scandinavian women are not used at all to be told by men “no thank you I am not interested in having sex with strangers whom I’ve had no conversation with beforehand”.

They got quite angry (of course this is second-hand information, I never experienced it myself).

But Norwegians as other Northern peoples like Britts, Danes, Swedes, Finns and Russians drink really a lot.

A (drunk) Dane once told me that being half drunk is a waste of money. So this is not about drinking a few glasses, this is about getting smashed drunk, so much that you don’t remember what happened, that you felt so inhibited that you were not even yourself anymore and that it felt great.If you are a Scandinavian woman you will look back, with a wink (? The rest seems to be the woman’s job (see principle number 2: inversion of roles).The issue here is that such subtle signs of interest from men are completely invisible to foreign women’s eyes as we are used to heavy flirting and seeing big signs of 2 meters by 4 made by men especially for us. If so go directly to principle number three: alcohol.Here it is a little Post-it hidden in the guy’s pocket. It is only after some years in Norway that I realised that men do flirt in their own peculiar way in order not to do anything that might invade your private space.p So conclusion number one: men won’t do anything more than just looking at you for a few seconds to show interest because they are shy and/or scared and/or very respectful of women. The second basic principle is logically linked to the effect of the first principle. Scandinavian women work for it, whereas we sit there and bat our eyelashes.As men are not very brave and need a lot of moral support and encouragement to talk to women, I have observed that there is an inversion of roles in what we, Southerners, see as the usual suspects: man chasing woman, woman playing hard to get, man trying to convince woman anyway by telling her that her eyes reflect all the stars of this universe, that she is beautiful, that no, she doesn’t look fat in that dress. They get active and invite men to dance and flirt openly whereas Southern women are taught to do these things subtly and discretely.You know, with a little style and dignity, not drunk with your fake tan getting off your face like I often saw in the UK.

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