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Coincidentally, it turned out the San Franciscan was going to be in New York City that weekend, and we made plans to meet when he arrived.

When his plane landed, he said he was too tired to get together but asked if we could reschedule.

After being ghosted and dealing with canceled dates, I found myself crying over random dudes.

Everything was going great until we had sex and he ghosted me. Soon after, a really cute guy from San Francisco messaged me on Tinder (we'd matched when I was in his area for a wedding).

The West Coast was a little far to pursue anything serious, but I was just so happy to feel excited about someone else to get my mind off the ghoster.

A few days after he suggested the trip, he asked if he could come earlier than we'd planned.

And a few days after that, he said he wouldn’t be able to make it until April, and actually, this wasn’t going to work and he couldn’t do it anymore. Six weeks later, I met a guy I through Tinder, which so rarely happens it’s like the unicorn of dating experiences.

This is a way to comfort myself without deciding that I hate men, and also feel compassionate for them while still being kind and gentle to myself.

Now, when a guy effusively expresses interest in me then abruptly changes his mind or ghosts after sex, I can think about how it’s likely that given his particular emotional wounds, he hit a wall for intimacy and had to retreat.

In December, a guy I went to high school with started messaging me on Facebook.

That escalated to texting every day, phone dates, and him bringing up visiting me over Valentine's Day weekend (he was in the Midwest, I'm in New York City).

I wrote back to let him knew when I was free and then…crickets.

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