Damala sex - How to stop dating a guy

I could either continue to view my dating experiences as abysmal failures that reflected poorly upon my self-worth and keep letting my self-esteem circle the drain.

Or, I could manage my attitudes about my relationships in general and take a whole different approach to dating.

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For whatever reason, you were not right for someone else. It is easy to get hung up on the “whys” behind their decision, but dwelling on them doesn’t change the reality.

If you aren’t right for someone else, they aren’t right for you.

Does someone accidentally fall on you in the grocery store?

In the two-and-a-half hours I leave the house each week, is he going to trip on me at Starbucks while I’m nervously palming my skinny hazelnut latte and completely avoiding eye contact?

Here is how I stopped the painful experience of getting my self-worth tied up in my dating experiences.

Rather than looking for your other half and staying off balance, you must believe that you are worthy and whole right now.

So they often parrot off clichés like “you’ll meet the right one when you least expect it” and “you’ll find him when you aren’t looking.” When you’re on this emotional roller coaster, these well meaning statements are enough to make you want to cold clock someone in the face.

How exactly do you even meet anyone if you aren’t looking?

No wonder I felt horrible and had lots of go-nowhere relationships. Then, just like the lifespan of my favorite bras, the support system failed and the underwire started digging in.

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