Dating a man six years older
He refused to come to my apartment (I had several thousand roommates), so we’d always hang at his place. and then feel like I owe you a blow job as payback for the guacamole. When the Older Man and I eventually ended it, I chalked it up to the age gap.
He controlled the relationship, at least superficially. We also had different ideas of what qualifies as fun. so we could have the first pick of strawberries at the farmers’ market. But in hindsight, I think we might have just been incompatible.
So when you meet someone who has clean towels in their bathroom and, like, a , it’s intoxicating.
The Older Man had cool friends who had made movies and weren’t on their parents’ family plan. But while the daddy vibe had longevity in bed, in life it got old pretty quickly.
Not that I have anything against dating older guys, but here's some afternoon uggghhh: Financial stability was one of the biggest reasons women cited for preferring older dudes, since 55% of women said they couldn't afford rent or mortgages on their own. Most of the guys I've dated have been my age to just a couple of years older, but sadly for poor old me (literally), none of them have provided any financial stability so I don't think I'd call that a motivation. Is there anybody out there who prefers younger guys?
I will say that while I don't have a rule against dating younger guys, I probably wouldn't consider it my ideal dating situation either. How to date outside your age: The DOs and DON' Ts of Dating an Older Man Dating: 4 Reasons to Date a Younger Man Scarlett Johansson and Sean Penn Caught Canoodling!
He also practiced Buddhist chanting (à la Courtney Love).
I filed both of these under “things you can only appreciate while middle-aged.” But despite the age difference (and his idiosyncrasies) we had some things in common.
People raise their eyebrows at relationships with a significant age gap: If you’re the older guy, you’re creepy and exploitative; if you’re the older woman, you’re both of those things plus delusional about your shelf life.
And yet, it’s not an accident that the teacher is a sexual archetype: Power, and the transmission of knowledge, are inherently erotic.
Despite the unfortunate rise of the cougar phenomenon (not that dating younger men is unfortunate, just the use of the term cougar), it seems as a society, we're still more into May-December relations when the guy is the December. I'm not sure I actually know what that expression is supposed to mean. But what I'm trying to say is, more people still think that a romantic relationship is ideal when it's between an older man and a younger woman.
Specifically, four years and four months older, which was the average "ideal" age gap as reported by a survey of 2,000 adults.
Stupid society and its conditioning that men look handsome and distinguished as they age while women don't.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating