Dating a man 10 years younger

You'll always have to worry that a young dude will make a run at her, especially if you show signs of aging while she's still keeping it tight (for now).

Sharing these things with the younger woman you have your eye upon will fascinate her, scintillate her, and keep her coming back for more–especially when her male peers struggle to find anything to talk about beyond frat parties and MTV.

[Read: 10 spontaneous romantic moves men should try on a date] #4 DO take an interest in her.

Sadly, this is something that younger guys are really bad at.

They will prattle on about themselves incessantly, until the woman they admire is ready to jump out of the nearest window in a last-ditch effort to escape.

She doesn't understand many pop culture references.

She can and will hold the fact that your are older over your head, especially when she's wrong about something.

Consequently, trying to work out what preconception attracted her to you and acting upon your mistaken logic can actually have a negative effect.

Making the most of being an older man with a younger woman The fact is, she fell for you, not a younger guy, and you have to play up your strengths without overcompensating or displaying any insecurities.

You have opinions that are considered and respected, and you have the confidence to deliver them; the younger man is limited to names and performances of his favorite sportsmen, while you can hold court upon any subject with ease.

This is a strength that the younger woman admires and aspires to. No better place to start than with your voice and mind. You don’t have to be a daredevil stunt driver or extreme sports junkie to pick up some interesting experiences along the way. It may be people you’ve met, places you’ve been on holiday, or anything else that stands out from the normal array of day-to-day activities.

It's not even like I'd do it differently because I loved her very much and those were good years. If you are mid 40ies and they are mid 30ies then it is no big deal.

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